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Birthday guest post extravaganza

 

First off, thank you so much to all of those who expressed an interest in joining in my celebrations and of course to the ones who took the time to write about their birthdays. I’ve had great fun reading about all of them, and some are truly amazing. I didn’t quite make it to 27, even though 30-something people wrote me about it, but I am still astonished that 24 people took the time to write me about their birthdays. Thank you!
This post is a day late, but yesterday was a busy busy day!
So to make it to 27, here are three memories from birthdays of mine:
#Home made Piñatas and candy necklaces
#Hanging a dead snake off the ring of the basketball court at school
#Eating vodka in a bar (from a plastic container using forks brought from home)
Clara @ A Starred Hotel
I don’t remember much about any of my birthdays because I’ve never had epic parties or anything, other that when I was a child and I’d invite some friends home, but even then there would be like 4 or 5 of us. I do remember celebrating my birthday home in ’98 (age 10) dressed up as Mel C and playing all sorts of games that I had previously organized with my mum, one of them consisting of looking for Milkybar buttons hidden all over the house (and it was really hard to find buttons in Spain anywhere, really), or staging an improvised play with my friends in front of the parents (I wonder why the kids love doing that). We also went to the Telepizza (a Spanish chain of restaurants that make sushi, I’m kidding, pizza, that was hilarious I know) and we made our own pizzas (they let you do that for your birthday) (if you’re a kid, that is). What I DO remember is the excitement my upcoming birthday would cause me during the previous weeks. I loved organizing the day (there would be a nice schedule, of course), thinking about the cake, the presents, and sending out homemade invitations (or Spice Girls cards) (yes, I was a total fan). That is what I miss the most nowadays, that anticipation. But these days are not so bad either. Last year I got great presents, which to you might seem lame but they mean a lot to me. Homemade presents or gifts that show that the person giving them to you really knows you are the best. For instance, this year I got this, and this. Best presents EVER (at least, of course, for me). I collect Schleich figures and I love hot-air balloons. Therefore I say YES. I also say yes to parenthesis marks.

Gem @ Biography of a Beatific Beatnik

I’ve attached a photo that I took last year on my 27th birthday in December. I spent the day by myself (after a year characterised, for me, by solitude/independence) in Lincoln before meeting up with my chap for a wonderful birthday dinner. I walked under the bridge in the photograph and felt it was posing a rather poignant question, especially on my 27th birthday. I’ve tried since then to answer it, and I’ve had a better year than the previous one because of it. Happy birthday!

Megan @ Time After Tea
One of my most memorable birthday moments was the speech my dad made at my 21st birthday. My dad is a man of very few words, a lot of my friends had joked that they had never even heard him speak. He was adamant he was making a speech at my 21st and I have to admit I was a little nervous about how it was going to go. Well apparently my dad is an amazing public speaker and had kept it a secret for the past 21 years of my life. He had all the guests laughing but most of all it was great to hear how proud he was of me – I had always known it but it was great to hear it out loud. People were so shocked by his speech that they still bring it up two years later.

Amanda @ Itchin’ Stitchin’
So to celebrate your 27th birthday Andrea, I wrote the top 10 things you must or mustn’t do for your birthday.

10. You must wear a party outfit because birthday suits are not allowed.
9. You are allowed to shake presents and guess but don’t shake the envelopes and try to guess if there is money in them.
8. It doesn’t matter how old you are, or will be, the Happy Birthday song will end with you smelling and looking like a monkey.
7. You must see what celebrities share the same birthday with you ~ Wait you shouldn’t have to do that since it’s your birthday so I did it for you…. Whoopi Goldberg, Jimmy Kimmel, Gerard Butler, and Steve Zahn.
6. You’re too old for birthday spankings and a pinch to grow an inch – consider it assault now.
5. You must get balloons filled with helium, and one for each year.
4. When everyone has left you must pop balloons and make silly helium voice noises.
3. Cake – some love it, some hate it … everyone must have a piece on their birthday
2. You must blow out all your candles – your never too old to do this – and make the best birthday wish you can possibly think of.

1. HAVE THE BEST BIRTHDAY EVER!!!
Amanda’s 2nd birthday
My 21st birthday (7 year ago now – ouch!). After watching too much Sex and the City my four housemates and I decided on an impromptu trip to New York to celebrate my 21st. It was my first trip to America and I loved it! My most decadent birthday party ever!

Esther @ In the Des(s)ert
The best present I got (material present, I mean) wasn’t given to me by my family or boyfriend, but by my friend and flatmate Marie. Last year, knowing I collect old books, she gave me one that belonged to her family and dated from 1949, the oldest in my library. And that’s not it. It was also signed by someone and addressed to his grandfather, wishing him a merry christmas. I don’t know how I could hold back tears when she gave it to me, but the happiness I felt at that moment can’t be compared to anything.


Robyn @ Twitch Vintage
For my 22nd birthday I decided to throw a cosmic bowling party. In order to enter you were required to wear at least one article of neon clothing. Everyone looked hilarious, and I was having a great time. Halfway through the party a guy who I had only been on 2 dates with and lived over 2 hours away showed up in an ALL neon ensemble to surprise me. This included a tight yellow tank top, tiny green shorts, and tall orange socks. It was the sweetest, and most disturbing present ever.


My 28th birthday was like no other. Smack in the middle of summer, I originally wanted to plan a weekend getaway with a few close friends. Perhaps spend it by a lake where we could do some canoeing and some grilling. However, after doing our research, it turned out that going away would be too expensive. So I happily settled on doing a small dinner at a friend’s house. Little did I know that my very dear friends were actually planning a surprise party for me. That night, as I walked over to my friend’s house completely unsuspicious, I got a wave of nervous energy as I knocked on her door. Although I couldn’t hear anything from inside, the vibe in the air of anticipation and excitement was palpable. And of course when I opened the door, I was greeted with birthday balloons, cupcakes, lavender cookies, party hats, amazing music and all of my favorite people in the same room. It was by far the best birthday so far.
I hope you have a wonderful birthday, Andrea! And an even better year. xo!
My 15th birthday was on a Saturday. I only remember this because I had to get up early to get on a bus for a theater competition. The group from my high school was performing an abbreviated version of Spoon River Anthology, a fascinating collection of invented epitaphs telling the sordid gossip of the long-dead inhabitants of a small town. I was in the chorus, meaning I had relatively few lines, most of which were spoken as a group.
I was a little mopey about doing something school-related on my birthday, but on the bus my friend Eleanore presented me with a surprise: a t-shirt she’d decorated with a tombstone of puffy paint, labeling me as the “star” of Spoon River Anthology. She also gave me a card she’d somehow managed to get everyone in the cast to sign without my knowledge. We had cake with lunch and though I was just this little high school freshman, even the seniors and teachers were wishing me a happy birthday. I felt very special.
Interestingly, this was the same year I received my very first (and only) surprise party. Because of the play it was some other random weekend, not my birthday itself. My friends had even gotten my parents in on it. I never suspected a thing, so it was truly a wonderful surprise. It’s amazing how quickly you can go from feeling
alone and forgotten to being reminded how loved you really are.
Thanks for letting me join your birthday celebration, Andrea. I hope
it’s a great one! :)
My best birthday so far was when I was pregnant with my daughter.  It lasted a whole weekend, and included jumbo coconut cupcakes with my mom, a wonderfully rich birthday dinner of French food with my husband, and ended with a hummingbird cake with friends.  As you can tell, the food figured largely ;) I also went to an antique mall with my mom and found this fabulous old photograph of a woman with her three birthday cakes.
Hi, I’m Kam. I’m 24, and spent my last birthday in two states: California and Illinois! I was in Chicago for over a week at a conference and the last day just happened to be my birthday :) My boyfriend flew out to the Windy City for the weekend so we could celebrate early (my actual birthday being on a Wednesday), which really got my spirits up. He even bought (and brought with him) a Holga camera!! We had drinks in the Signature Lounge at Hancock Tower, walked along the pier, took photos in Millennium Park, posed with the Micheal Jordan statue, and sat on a bus for an hour to visit the Threadless store! It was magical despite be chilled to the bone and stressed about my conference. I can only hope my birthday this next March will be just as fun!
Happy birthday, Andrea! I hope all your wishes come true and you have a great day :)
I have a LOT of fun birthday memories swirling around in my head, but one that stands out my sweet sixteen party!  WHAT an amazing party it was… my mom threw me a “Welcome to Holly-wood” party and all my friends were to come dressed as their favorite actor, actress, movie or TV character.  We had the tables set, twinkle lights hung in the trees, fresh flowers planted in black sparkly tophats on each table, and had a perfectly fantastic party in our backyard.  It was magical, and one that I will remember forever. :)
Me and Tom were meant to see Jeffrey Lewis live in Bristol but when that got cancelled Tom decided to put on a show as Jeffrey just for me! And the headline act was none other than Sufjan Stevens! I loved it. And got a new little friend called Frank who danced along to the songs with me..
Kiranjensaft
I am suspicious of whether it is my own memory or in fact a false memory implanted into my brain by others repetition of the events BUT I’m going to roll with it anyhow.
Having a brother who is two years and five days older than you means that you get to have all your birthday parties under the age of 10 together. He brought the boy unit, I the girl. I was four and he was six and as kids of a certain generation will know 4+6= birthday party at a fast-food chain. Our establishment of choice was Wimpy burger (swear it wasn’t me who picked it).
I only really remember two things from this birthday party;
1) The cake – I believe in cake and tea. Scrap presents, fun, people, places: it’s all about the cake. For those of you who like First Aid English: Cake is to birthday as birthday is to life.
On this year we had a joint birthday cake which was an open book mine was the pink left side and my brothers the right which was, yup, blue. Mum brought it home a day early allowing us plenty of time to sneak in, open the box, stare at it and have a tiny nibble of the “fallen” crumbs of icing.
2) The Hokey Cokey – There was a lot of (junk) food to eat and party games to play. Naturally the infamous Hokey Cokey made an apperance [Wiki explanation for the bemused here]. We had to go and wake up Mr Wimpy who was asleep on the fire escape stairs and bring him into the room. I hung back as I was a fearful child. When he was suitably aroused (around children!?) it was time for the Hokey Cokey to commence. We all gathered in a circle and I was slung next to Mr Wimpy! Awkward!! So awkward and scary in fact that I began to cry. I wept and was forced to hold his hand as I WAS the birthday girl. Oh how I wished I wasn’t. I just felt that same cold-meat-sweat-chill at the thought of holding a giant burger’s hand 20 years later: REAL MEMORY! Yay! Maybe I got so scared because I don’t eat beef or even still maybe it was my underlying wish to turn to vegetarianism that I have more recently developed. Although who the hell wouldn’t be scared of a 6ft burger that wants to hold your hand when you are four?? Hmm…all the other 4 and 6yr olds were happy enough…Just me then!
Happy Birthday Monkey #2 hope you don’t encounter any scary burger men and have plenty of cake!

Krystal @ Village

McKinze @ Off We Go

The first birthday I celebrated with my now-husband was when I turned 24. He surprised me with a week full of gifts. Our nickname for each other is “pants,” so he gave me a gift every day for a different part of my personality – “professional pants” was a pair of new Steve Maddens, “domestic pants” was a white strainer I’d been eyeing, “music pants” was a carefully-selected mix CD. For “traveling pants” he had my roommate sneak him my car keys so he could clean my car overnight. Attached to each gift was a tiny pair of Barbie pants. Best of all, on the last night – my actual birthday – he organized a surprise party with friends from all over! Needless to say, it’s one of the best gifts I’ve ever received and a special memory from our first few months together as a couple. I felt (and still do feel) so lucky to have someone that understands and appreciates me so completely!

Itziar @ Vidas de Mercurio
A few years ago, my boyfriend and one of my best friends planned a weekend trip to London as a present (my birthday fell on a Friday). They told everybody about it, because I wanted to throw a party and everybody had to pretend to be busy that day and say they couldn’t come. The result? I got really upset because nobody wanted to celebrate my birthday with me…so when I got out of work I went to the supermarket and bought some cake to eat on my on. When I got home, considerably later than expected, I found both my friend and boyfriend absolutely hysterical because we were going to miss our flight to London and they couldn’t find me and, what did I do? Laugh hysterically? Kiss them and hug them and pack? Take my passport and run to the airport without any luggage thinking about London’s shops? No. The only thing that came to my mind was asking “what should I take? what’s the weather like in London?” Anyway, it was a great weekend and I am often reminded of my great enthusiasm…

Kjirsten @ Simply Loverly
First off Happy Happy Birthday to sweet Andrea!!!  Hope this next year is a great one.  Thank you for our lovely present of sharing birthday memories!  :D  

On my 6th birthday I was adopted to my aunt and uncle.  They started off by always celebrating my birthday and our anniversary.  Every year I get a little something special like a bouquet of flowers or balloons.  For my 16th birthday my parents sent me balloons to school that said “Happy Birthday” and one that said “Happy Anniversary”.  My friends thought that the floral shop messed up and sent the anniversary on by accident.  Nope it wasn’t, it was our 10 year anniversary!   This last year we celebrated 22 years!!!  

Adeline @ Lady Croissant

For a great birthday party:

breakfast with your favourite people, balloons, moustaches and party with amazing people (aka best friends).

My happy birthday memory is from my 16th birthday. I didn’t have anything planned, I’m not really a birthday person. On the Saturday before my birthday, my parents decided to take me out for dinner. I thought we’d go to the Beefeater restaurant near my house because, well, that’s what we always do for family events. But weirdly, my Mum announced we were going for pizza. Weird, because my Mum hates pizza, but my 16 year old self just shrugged and didn’t think about it any more than that because I was a pretty self absorbed 16 year old.
As we walked towards the restaurant I saw some of my friends sitting at a table in the window. I wanted to die of shame. How embarrassing, dinner with my Mum and Dad on a Saturday night? Plus the added shock of my friends going out for dinner and not inviting me. Possibly the two most terrible things that can happen to a 16 year old, but on the same night? Major trauma.
I tried to convince my parents to go to a different restaurant, but parents are so clueless right? They wouldn’t consider such a thing, suddenly my Mum desperately needed a pizza. They dragged me into the restaurant and, even more embarrassingly, over to my friends’ table. Oh, the shame!
We approached the table, my face throbbing red with shame, and suddenly, “Surprise!”. My friends had called my parents and arranged a surprise pizza dinner. My Mum still hated pizza and I wasn’t a social pariah after all. It was a great birthday.
Happy birthday, Andrea, I hope you have a wonderful day full of happy surprises.
My favorite and most memorable birthday revolves around the little known/unloved Disney live action film “Operation Dumbo Drop” starring a Mr. Ray Liotta and a Mr. Danny Glover. My parents had planned a glorious day of miniature golf and dairy barn ice cream but alas, Mother Nature had other plans for us on the fateful day in July of 1995. Scrambling for a last minute “Activity” for ten 12 year olds, obviously Operation Dumbo Drop was the only real and seemingly successful option for a gaggle of girls of this age range ;-) I love my parents for persevering through adversity; I guarantee you that my parents have no recollection of this birthday party gone array but I will remember that birthday for the rest of my life and that is no lie. Actually… I am going to add Operation Dumbo Drop to my Netflix queue right now. It’s been over 15 years since I’ve seen it.The tag line you ask “A story about big dreams and small miracles.” Happy 12th birthday to me!



Blair @ Blair Necessities
I vividly recall my 4th birthday.

We were living in Madrid and I was going to a Montessori school. We were allowed to bring treats for the rest of the class. I had asked my mother to make some mint brownies, they were my favorite. On my birthday she showed up at the school with them and a whole bunch of other treats in tow. So, I was tasked with serving my classmates and there were so many treats they decided to open it up to the other classrooms. When I was serving the last class the only treat left was the brownies I had requested. I went to my mom, and lamented (complained) that I would not get any if I served those. She looked me in the eyes and proceeded to tell me that sharing was what we were supposed to do, that it was not a very nice thing to be selfish when serving others. I could tell that she was very serious. I think my eyes must have welled up because she offered to make me another batch later. which sorta helped, but not much. I had been looking forward to the mint brownies for the whole morning.

So, I picked up the pan, and walked around and served the older kids who were the lucky recipients of the treat I had wanted. I watched my hands scoop them up with a spatula and carefully place the square on a napkin in front these kids who I did not really know. And as I watched my hands repeat this movement until I served the last one… my mind was reeling with the thought that my mother must really love me to teach me the lesson about sharing and to not be selfish. Really, it was such a profound moment; what with feeling my mothers love, learning that sharing is an important part of community, learning that it was easy to have selfish tendencies. I treasure that lesson and keep it very close to my heart. When I tell it in front of my mother she always cringes and thinks it is a bad thing, but really I think ti was the best present she has ever given me.

And no, I don’t recall that she made them for me later. Somehow, I think it is more powerful and special because she did not.

Ana @ The Magic Box That Came to the Other Side
My nice birthday memory took place when I was 11 years old. I usually celebrated my birthdays at home with some friends. My mother would take care of everything and of course everything went just right; good music, delicious home-made food and the best cookie cake (my favourite). But as you get old you start dreaming about celebrating that special day somewhere that will surprise your friends, which was hard because my mother’s very traditional. But that year something changed, she gave me tickets for the amusement park and the result was one of the best days of my life. I could go on all the rides that I wasn’t allowed to go on before, we ate fast food and sweets, a huge chocolate milkshake and, the best part, is that she did it all too. She was just one more of us, laughing and enjoying herself. I think that after so many years she allowed me to see something that she usually hides from everybody; her inner child. And this is without a doubt one of my best memories.

Hazel @ Accident Blackspot

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  • Megan

    >Happy Birthday lady!!
    This was such a great idea for a post – I love reading everyones memories and how different they all are. I hope you had a wonderful day making your own memories!

  • Nicola

    >Aw, happy birthday! I liked Itchin' Stitchin's Amanda's tips! Kjirsten's story was so sweet.

    I racked my brains to think of a nice birthday memory for you, but the only things I could think of were disappointments like losing one of my brand new earrings on my bouncy castle (that was my 5th birthday).

  • Sarahf

    >I love this. My birthday is in a couple of weeks and now Im looking forward to something magical happening. Did you get the gifts you wanted?

  • Michelle

    >Such great memories! I gave it a try myself, but couldn't come up with anything. Of course now my head is filled with sweet small birthday memories – just small things. Oh well.. hehe. Hope you had a fantastic day with cake, presents, friends and fam!

  • Laura

    >happy happy birthday :) love hazel's doodles above! x

  • Cristina

    >Happy birthday!!

  • mckinze

    >Happy Birthday! Such a fun idea and happy to be involved. Enjoy your birthday week! :)

    -McKinze

  • Krystal

    >happy happy birthday! I totally loved everyone's stories and drawings! whoa!

  • aDeLiNe

    >This is an amazing collection!!!
    xxx

  • Itchin’ Stitchin’

    >Happy Birthday :) Hope number 10 came true!

  • Karen

    >I love this post! Happiest birthdaying to you! x

  • Melanie

    >what a great idea for a post. hope you had a good birthday!

  • Anna

    >Alles Gute zum Geburstag beautiful!! (belated)

    so sorry i was a bum about getting a post to you in time, but honestly, your additional three are totally way more entertaining than any of my bdays!

    hugs to you, hope your bday was fantastic!
    xo-

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